October 10, 2008

Good News and Bad

The Bad News - The doctor at Children's does think Cooper has verbal apraxia. 

The Good News - Cooper seems to have a very mild version of it.  Some kids with apraxia have two or three words by age three.  Cooper has hundreds of words.  Now he'll just have to work extra hard on articulation. 

The Better News - This really doesn't change any part of our battle plan, which mainly consists of speech therapy...particularly the PROMPT therapy.    The doctor we saw this week at Children's used to work in Cincinnati.  She told us that in the entire city of Cincinnati, only three speech therapists were certified in PROMPT.  She couldn't believe we had already found a pathologist who could help us.  So that's exciting. 

The Best  News - Cooper's speech will get there.  It's just going to take time and work.  I hate that Cooper is going to have to work hard at something most of us take for granted, but everyone who we've consulted says we should see extreme improvement in just six short months and total recovery in two to three years. 

The Confusing News - I feel like we have several experts all telling us different things.  And the big problem with that is that I trust all of them.  I love Cooper's pediatrician and he thinks this is all fixable, no big deal, and not neurological.  Cooper's speech pathologist seems to be on the fence about the diagnosis as a whole.  She's still not comfortable labeling him as apraxic.  And then there's the doctor we saw yesterday.  Frankly, I was a little disappointed when she gave the diagnosis in under 30 minutes.  Keep in mind, the two other professionals have known Cooper for much longer and are still not convinced.   Hopefully his version is SO mild that it takes someone who specializes in it to identify it .

There are several things that all three professionals agree on though.... 

- Coop needs to see a speech pathologist twice a week. 

- We should give the PROMPT method six months and then reevaluate his progress.    

- The preschool where he receives speech services is where he needs to be. 

- And hopefully, we'll see amazing progress within the next year. 

So those are the things we'll do.    :)

October 09, 2008

Cooper Update

We've had a lot of nice emails and well wishes from friends, family and even some total strangers (Google searchers) after I posted about Cooper's possible verbal apraxia. So I thought I would update everyone on the last week - which has been more progressive than I could have imagined.

Cooper went to his pediatrician, Dr. Breen, for his 3-year-old checkup last Friday. I love Dr. Breen and now wish I would have taken Cooper to see him immediately after Columbus Speech and Hearing mentioned apraxia to us. Dr. Breen is amazingly sensitive to speech problems because his own son suffered from a significant speech delay as a toddler. The good doc had a lot of thoughts on verbal apraxia...

1. It's over-diagnosed.

2. It's often diagnosed for insurance purposes.  Speech thereapists need paid too - and parents are likely to keep coming back if insurance is covering the cost. Private speech therapy here in Columbus costs $57 per half hour!!! (Holy moly, I'm in the wrong field.)

3. It's hard to diagnose apraxia in young three-year-olds because they are still learning to make certain sounds - especially boys who often develop at a slower pace.  Symptoms of it can be confused with those of a typical speech delay.

Whew - I really let out a sigh of relief when we left Doctor Breen's office. He gave Cooper a clean bill of health, said he saw no sign of any motor function disorders, but still recommended we stick with speech therapy to help with Cooper's articulation. He also recommended that we keep our appointment with Children's Hospital this week, since it can still help us with a speech insurance claim even if they don't diagnose apraxia. All good news!!!

Cooper's private speech therapist, Elizabeth, is still assessing his speech. She told me today that she is still not comfortable diagnosing him with verbal apraxia. And that suits us just fine since it means she and Dr. Breen seem to be coming to the same conclusion separately.

So tomorrow, we'll head to the developmental specialist who will also have a vote on the diagnosis. And then we'll go from there to get Cooper the help he deserves.

I leave you with Cooper's first self portrait.  He was so thrilled with it. :)

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October 06, 2008

Down With Time Warner

There is no nice way to say it - I HATE TIME WARNER CABLE!!!!

Another TWC brawl is putting a crimp in my relaxation time.Twc_sucks

First, Time Warner Cable couldn't get along with the Big Ten Network - denying us access to many televised Buckeye games during the past two seasons.  Now - they are battling with the CW Network and replacing the channel with the Starz Kids and Family Network?!?!?!  That means in spite of the $175 dollars I just paid Time Warner - I still can't watch 90210 or Gossip Girl this week!!!

Where is the number for AT&T???...I swear I just got an advertisement from them that offered the same phone, Internet and cable bundle package for $90.  And I bet AT&T knows how to play nice with others!!!

Maybe the executives at Time Warner should consider re-enrolling in preschool where they could learn the art of getting along.  I swear, Cooper could teach them a few lessons about life AND HE'S THREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

October 04, 2008

What Responsible Parent

let's their three-year-old touch  a snake?  I thought letting our grabby little Cooper touch a snake at the Zoo006 today was a HIDEOUS idea.  His Dad thought it was SUPER COOL that Cooper wanted to try it.  In the end, I lost.  And considered calling Children's Services on the entire operation, until I saw Cooper's excited face.  True thrill.

011 Like most boys, if you ask Cooper what he saw at the Zoo today, he wouldn't tell you that he petted a snake.  Instead, he would probably tell you that he saw the elephant do his business.  Gross, I know, but by far the highlight of his day.  He proudly and repeatedly announced to everyone we saw that "Ew, yuck.  The eph-alant made stinks on the ground."  Thankfully, the elephant exhibit was our last stop before it was time to go home.  Otherwise, I think we would have offended a lot of people with our elephant play-by-play.

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The Penguins.

The Manatees & Sting Rays.

The Alligators.

The Tigers.

And of course, the everlasting favorite of both boys - THE FISHIES.012

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October 02, 2008

I Told You They Loved Summer

It's barely 50 degrees and WWAAAAYYYYY too cold for swimming, but that didn't stop Cooper and Becks from breaking out their pool toys today.  Our neighbors must think we are crazy.

October 01, 2008

Finding Cooper's Voice

Childhood Apraxia of Speech is a motor speech disorder. For reasons not yet fully understood, children with apraxia of speech have great difficulty planning and producing the precise, highly refined and specific series of movements of the tongue, lips, jaw and palate that are necessary for intelligible speech. Apraxia of speech is sometimes called verbal apraxia, developmental apraxia of speech, or verbal dyspraxia. No matter what name is used, the most important concept is the root word "praxis." Praxis means planned movement. To some degree or another, a child with the diagnosis of apraxia of speech has difficulty programming and planning speech movements.

It's the speech condition Cooper likely has.  Most of you who read our blog know that we have been taking CooperCooper_train_hat  to speech therapy on a weekly basis for a few months.  He's had his speech evaluated, what seems like a hundred, but more like five times since he turned two.  He was a late talker, and I was concerned that he was still just babbling at about 26 months.  The only two words that were understandable -"tree" and "cookie." 

Then a miracle happened.  A few months went by and Cooper had a HUGE spike in vocabulary.  By about 29 months, he had started asking and answering questions.  It was glorious I tell you.  It was tough to understand him sometimes, and he still had a lot of baby babble when he was playing alone - but HE WAS TALKING.  Relief, wonderful relief, settled over our house.

More months passed.  While Cooper kept talking more and more, the structure of his sentences and the Cooper_jersey_2 clarity of his words weren't improving.  Chris and I could understand 90% of what he was saying, our families and close friends could understand about 50% of his words, and the rest of the world could pick up on about 20% of his sentences.  No matter how much we worked with him, we realized he was falling behind again, and it was time for yet another speech evaluation.

All of our previous evaluations were done through Ohio's Early Intervention Program known as "Help Me Grow."  Honestly, I wish I could pat them on the back and say "job well done", but I found them hard to deal with.  They were tough to get a hold of.  They missed appointments.  They seemed disorganized, and all they ever wanted to talk about was autism.  It was frustrating when they would give Cooper a speech evaluation and come out and say - "He doesn't have autism."  I would then huffily answer "I know that.  I think he has a speech delay though."  It was like autism was the only disorder they knew how to diagnose.  So this time, we decided to go through Columbus Speech and Hearing.  We forked over the lump of cash that private evaluations cost and sure enough, they suggested that Cooper come to speech therapy once a week to work on certain letters and sounds. 

Great, right?  We were on the road to recovery.  Another high for Chris and I! 

Of course, that high ended abruptly last Monday.   Chris took Cooper for his regularly scheduled appointment, but his behavior was so bad that they suggested we reschedule for Wednesday.  In my typical control-freak fashion, I decided that I needed to tag along and make sure things went smoothly.  I knew in order for Cooper to get any value out of these sessions, he was going to have to be receptive to it, so I made it my personal mission to make sure he was pumped up for it.

As it turns out, Cooper's therapist, had asked her supervisor, Elizabeth, to sit in on the make-up session with her to make sure Cooper got off on the right foot this time.  It's pretty neat setup at CS&H.  The child goes into a room with the therapist where there are toys, and bubbles and a big mirror.  The mirror is actually a two-way mirror where parents can see and hear everything going on in the other room.   

The session was like all the other ones I had watched, except Elizabeth kept using her fingers to almost shape Cooper's lips.  At first I thought it was bizarre, but then Cooper said the words "more" and "mine" clear as I've ever heard them!  He typically pronounces those words as "nore" and "nine."  Cooper didn't know it, but he had his own cheering section behind the mirror.  Chris and I were high fiving each other like the Buckeyes had just won the National Championship!!!

When the session ended, Elizabeth The Miracle Worker, told us the technique was something called PROMPT therapy and it's extremely successful for kids who suffer from Verbal Apraxia.  It took a minute for those words to sink in.  Verbal Apraxia?  We had never heard of it, and when she said the word NEUROLOGICAL, I think I almost passed out.  I recovered in time to hear her say that Cooper could be just fine with the right treatment, and that she would be taking him on full time as her patient.

So let's get down to the nitty gritty.....  After torturing myself for the last week on the Internet, researching doctor after doctor and treatment after treatment, I think I  have a good handle on what we are dealing with.....

- Verbal Apraxia is a speech disorder where the brain and the mouth have trouble connecting.  It basically means that Cooper knows what he wants to say, but he has trouble getting his mouth to follow the directions of his thoughts. 

- There seem to be different levels of Verbal Apraxia.  I am hopeful since none of Cooper's previous evaluations have caught it, that we are on the lower level of it.   We are still waiting for Elizabeth's official diagnoses, but expect it during our next session.

- Cooper is likely going to need speech therapy several times a week instead of just once a week.

- Cooper needs to see a Developmental Specialist who can rule out any other neurological problems.  Also, a diagnoses from an M.D. will likely help us in the good ol' battle with the insurance company.  They typically don't like to cover speech therapy.  We have an appointment next Thursday at Nationwide Children's Hospital and so I have high hopes for their help.  Our original appointment was scheduled for January, but I have a feeling someone pulled some strings to get us moved up.  Although she won't admit it, I must tell Jane thank you being such a wonderful friend and for ALWAYS loving Cooper the way you have.  You are the person who gave him the nickname Super Duper Cooper!  And I love it that you are coming to his rescue this time! 

Cooper_bus-  This does pose somewhat of a problem for his social skills.  Many three-year-olds have a really tough time understanding him, so I think he is having some problems connecting with his peers, but there is nothing we can really do about that now.  Patience is a virtue - and we will just have to be patient while the PROMPT therapy helps him learn to connect the dots between his thoughts and his words.  Something that made me feel better though - Cooper's preschool is designed for kids with speech problems.  So while he may be having a tough time finding buddies, other than his brother, at the park - he fits right in at school.  And I think that makes him feel good.

- This speech problem is not related to his intelligence.  While it is neurological, it does not impact his ability to learn, comprehend, or retain information.   Cooper has all the answers to questions people ask him.  He's just having trouble making his mouth say the words his head is thinking.  He tries hard, but it often comes out sounding a bit jumbled.  And when he's excited -it's almost inaudible for people who don't know him well.   I still think he is remarkably intelligent for a kid who just turned three  though.  He knows all his letters, numbers, colors and shapes!  He recognizes the spelling of his own name!  I swear - he knows more than I did in Kindergarten.

-  Cooper is a really good listener!  His receptive skills are amazing.  He follows directions of all kinds.  Someday he is going to make a great boyfriend/husband because of all the listening he's learned to do while the rest of the world just blabs away.

- And finally, it's a true blessing that we caught this early.  It's perhaps the best thing that could of come from Cooper acting like a total ass that Monday at speech class.  Think about it - if he wouldn't have been so bad, then his therapist would never have asked her supervisor (Elizabeth) to come with her, and Elizabeth would have never met Cooper and recognized the signs of apraxia.  It could have been another year before Cooper got the REAL help he needed.  God works in mysterious ways, huh?  As He would have it - Cooper is getting the help he needs EARLY.  Coop is still three years away from Kindergarten, so that gives us a good chunk of time to get him where he needs to be.

So stay tuned as we anxiously await Cooper's appointment at Children's next week and also - the diagnoses from his amazing speech therapist.

If you are interested in more information - I've found http://www.apraxia-kids.org/ to be very helpful.

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September 26, 2008

The Answer Is....

Yes, he dressed himself.

  • After his bath...

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  • When we played in the pool last week...

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  • And, tonight - when we headed out to dinner and the grocery.   This time - he even picked out his own Superman hat.

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  •    Without a doubt - Cooper loves his new froggy-like rain boots (that are supposed to be for school).  And, although it hasn't rained here in weeks, he's already gotten plenty of wear out of them.   

September 23, 2008

Mischief and Mayhem

Birth order.  Does it make a difference in your personality???  It has to, right???

They say the youngest child is typically a risk taker and a rule breaker.

That certainly describes out Becks.   Tonight, in just three short hours, he managed to....Becketticing1_2

- climb to the center of our train table and stand up like he was King Kong or something.  He just laughed as Cooper stared in disbelief.

- pulled the fireplace screen on top of himself.

- dumped an entire plate of spaghetti on to the kitchen floor - yelling "Uh Oh" and then squealing with delight.

- desperately tried to play in the garbage.  Ew.

- made a dire attempt to eat sidewalk chalk.

- climbed into the soaking wet bathtub with his PJ's on.

Beckett_porch_3I think my sweet little baby has turned into the Tasmanian Devil.  Don't be fooled by those big blue eyes....this bubby has mayhem on his mind.

September 20, 2008

Sometimes Mom and Dad...

need a day all to themselves.  God bless my mom.  She got us Buckeye tickets today, drove up to babysit Me_and_chris the boys, and did our laundry while we were at the game.  Let me say it again - God bless my mom. 

What I wanted to do before/at the game...

A.  Drink Beer

B.  Eat Hot Dogs

C.  Watch the band (once a band lover, always a band lover)

What Chris wanted to do...

A.  Watch football

B.  Watch football

C.  Watch football

We compromised....drank beer before, then watched the Best Damn Band in the Land, and then ate hot dogs and nachos while watching football.   A wonderful day.  Thanks Mom!!!!

September 19, 2008

Where did the baby fat go?

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Where are those chubby cheeks and that pudgy belly?  Who is this tall, skinny kid???

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